Thoughtful Thursday: Can a mama have a moment?

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The time we're in now is so hard...

Parents are at home with their kids 24/7, due to the fact they need to work from home, and as well homeschool-- it can take a toll emotionally, physically, mentally..

Now before the 'Oh my goodness did she just say that?"; there is no doubt in the world that we would love to spend all of our time with our kids.

But not all parents out there are fortunate to be able to afford to pay for childcare, or have family members who are close to take their children to-- so what is the other option? They need to work.

And in this pandemic/covid19 season we're in (I'm calling it a season because it will surely pass) it's very hard on the parents as well as everyone else-- but having kids who have to also endure in this-- even though they may not be clear with what is going on (more so the younger ones) isn't very easy!
The younger ones don't know about social distancing.. and then every two seconds we're squeezing some cold slippery substance in their hands and telling them to rub their hands together-- they'll just follow because mummy and daddy have said so..

And let me not get into the fact that for the kids.. their immune systems have no work to do.. so what happens when everything does open back up-- will they be getting sick every two seconds??

Honestly it's taking its toll on everyone... and with NEW restrictions being announced every 2 seconds.. it's as if this thing will last forever?

It will surely not! It will be a distant memory, and we will all be saying 'I remember when..'

Hang on in there; and it's ok to have an emotional moment... it is VERY much allowed.

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