Short Story Saturday

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"Why are you behaving like that! Stop!"

"Mummy!"

"I don't want to hear it, if you don't want your brother to do something, you don't fight!
Go and say sorry to your brother!"

"No!"

"Do you want to go and stand in the corner?"

"No!"

"Go and say sorry. Give him a hug. Then go and sit down."

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