Transparency Tuesday: Mindset

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Have you realized the way your day.. your week.. your month. your life is determined by your perspective and the way you think?

Our minds are very powerful... I think we underestimate the power it holds and if we use it positively our lives can take a turn for the better.

Imagine this:

You wake up in the morning and you don't feel like it's a good day-- you've woken up on the "wrong side of the bed", your children are both screaming at the top of their lungs, the rooms are a mess... and you just literally want to just put the duvet over your head and let the day pass by..

Just by one thought.. your entire mood and the entire day can change. Do you believe this?

I've personally had this happen... I was just in a bad mood and didn't even know why.. my kids were both just doing the most.. and I was just having a short fuse. So I just switched.. started playing with them.. laughing.. singing songs and just thought to myself  "Be happy".. and the day just changed in that split second.

Especially with having children.. we are who they look up to.. we are their role models, and at the end of the day we are who they emulate. So we as parents need to be the best versions of ourselves for them.
Not saying that we don't have bad days.. we do, we are only human! But it shouldn't become a habit that the bad days outweigh the good.

Try it.. one day put it in your mind that today will be a good day... and see how the day goes.

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