Transparency Tuesday: Check on the boy mama's.. we are not ok

-
I have CONSTANTLY been saying this on my Instagram on a lot of my posts.. and I'm going to now break it down just a little for you guys to just get a taste of what we go through... and if you are already a boy mama or you have a son.. you already know the deal!

As you know through the whole quarantine period.. the kids have definitely been driven up the wall.. and driving me up the wall too...
For the past week or so.. my boys have been picking fights with each other...
Yeah.
You heard me.

Picking. Fights.

They would be playing one minute.. and the next one of them is slapping one in the face.. then kicking.. then wrestling.
Hoo lawd.

And it literally starts from NOWHERE. I can just be sitting down with them.. then one of them will get up and slap one in the face. And I'm like 'WHOA. Don't do that!"
Sometimes I'm like.. are they getting tired of these four walls?

Honestly.. I do find it hilarious-- the other day my youngest just did a forward roll on the bed. It was the most randomest. thing. ever. These boys are always keeping me on edge.

The most annoying thing is when they like to throw things around the house... shoes... toys.. blocks.. nappies.. clothes.. you name it they throw it.

Check on us. It's likely we're shouting the house down.. pulling out our hair.. doing never ending loads of laundry because these boys do not stay still..

Yeah.. check on us. We're not ok. lol.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Thoughtful Thursday: "You're a big boy now"

-
So... with Matthew turning 3, I've had to start implementing the phrase, "You're a big boy now", when it comes to certain things that are considered baby-ish; or to kind of enforce independence.. So a prime example is.. he is very used to sitting on my lap. I don't want to stop it, but when we are in particular places, like on the bus, or places where he can sit down; I'm trying to enforce that.  He's still small and cute so sometimes I even forget and just put him on my lap-- but then I later realize that he is getting heavy! lol I'm starting (well kind of), to encourage him to eat on his own. But he's already shown me inklings that he wants to. He will literally take the spoon from me and start feeding himself. So now I'll go 'You're a big boy now, you have to eat at the table." He was reluctant at first, but when he saw his brother eating, he was encouraged. lol. He has his moments when he wants me to feed him, but it's a gr...
Read more

Transparency Tuesday: More understanding

-
When I was growing up, I think my mother didn't take time to actually understand what kind of child/person I was. My mother was born and bred in Ghana; and moved to the UK. So obviously, her culture is heavily African. My mother was very loving and supportive, don't get me wrong, but I can remember my mum used to talk for me whenever someone was talking to me directly, so I wouldn't get to speak up for myself... and anytime I would want to talk to her, I would get a 'Don't worry, don't worry' and get shunned. So this in turn made me a shy child. Now after having kids of my own, I can understand why she did certain things-- she probably thought she was protecting me to an extent. Because obviously... when your child starts asking you questions... you don't actually want to answer them.. you don't want them knowing certain things so early! It's an abomination! But... in this time we're in now.. the children are developing at such a fast rate......
Read more

Thoughtful Thursday: My word for the year

-
Thanks to another mama on Instagram (theprettygirlsguide, check her out); I've decided to have a word to round up my year. My word is: Mindful So there are goals I have set for myself and my kids this year.. and I need to make sure I'm mindful in all aspects of fulfilling them. Being mindful of my intentions, my actions, learning, lessons.. everything. This word stood out for me when I saw the post by theprettygirlsguide and I just went, "Yep, that's my word". I've never actually chosen a word to focus on for the year-- so hopefully by doing this I'll be more determined to do what I need to do... I'm being more mindful about what I speak into existence I'm being more mindful about my thoughts and my attitude  I'm being more mindful about what I teach my kids and how I deal with them I'm being more mindful towards myself.. self care.. and what I want to achieve For me... mindfulness is an inside work and it will work it's way out. What ...
Read more