From the start of the pandemic, I've started letting my 3 year old eat by himself. Now this is going to sound so... silly.. but I kind of delayed doing it because I enjoy feeding my children and spending that quality time with them. But honestly he's getting older and he needs to be more independent.. so yeah. I don't want to become one of those parents that ends up doing everything for their children-- because at the end of the day it's not helping them.. I made him lunch; noodles and hot dogs, put his plate down, put his fork in the food. I told him, "Jerry, make sure you blow your food because it's hot" He took the fork and ate the noodles. What do you think happened? He spat the food out and went 'ow' lol. So I told him again, and blew the food. Then I told him to blow the food. He blew. He ate it and smiled. I said 'see' and he went, 'see' So I continued to watch him eat.. he would still put some of the food ...
It's not too early to assign responsibilities to your children is it... ..because I do it. lol. Nothing too 'hard'. When my boys finish eating, their responsibility is to clean up after themselves... so that involves putting the plates and cups in the sink and stacking their chairs away. If they make a mess-- like a water spillage (which happens often lol) they wipe it up! I used to do it, but I noticed that the boys can actually clean up.. there was a time I spilled something accidentally and one of them came with the roll of paper towel and wiped it up! I was so surprised. So I decided then and there. I'm starting to teach them how to put their clothes away-- it's a process but we will get there. Washing dishes is going to be the next one, because my 3 year old knows how to put away the cutlery. I feel as a mama of boys, they must learn all of these things-- it's important to start early so they have it embedded in them for life!
So... I had to ban my 3 year old from watching a cartoon movie called 'The Secret life of pets 2" I'm sure all parents have seen this movie, and have probably seen the first one too. There's a particular scene in this film where a rabbit and a monkey are fighting. On this occasion, he was copying how they were fighting and kicked his brother in the stomach. He cried. I immediately turned it off and told him what he did was wrong-- told him to apologize to his brother and that was it. I honestly forget that kids copy EVERY SINGLE THING that they see-- because this is how they learn and retain information. This happening was a wake up call that I can't just let my children just watch anything; despite this being a cartoon for kids, there are still gonna be certain scenes that may not be appropriate-- ex-- fighting. It's our job as parents to be vigilant and mindful that everything that they see they will copy.. so we most definitely have to be the first ...
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